Today’s Gospel presents a challenging message from Jesus: “If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, even his own life—such a person cannot be my disciple.” This statement can be shocking and seems contradictory to the teachings of love and honor.
Some interpret this message as applicable only to priests or religious figures, but it is truly a call for all of us. If someone claims to have abandoned their family in the name of following Jesus, I would advise them to return home and reconcile first. Jesus is not asking us to hate literally; rather, He uses strong language to emphasize that our commitment to Him must take precedence over everything else in our lives.
This is indeed a difficult demand, as we all cherish our families and lives. However, Jesus calls us to prioritize our relationship with Him above all. He urges us not to follow Him because it’s popular but to truly consider the cost of discipleship. Jesus provides two examples: a man building a tower and a king going to war, both of whom must plan and commit fully.
In our Catholic spirituality, we need to find a balance between reason and faith. In today’s world of misinformation and polarization, it’s essential to use reason to seek the truth, while also holding onto our faith. Our faith formation calls us to support others with wisdom and resilience in times of uncertainty.
As we celebrate this Jubilee year, let us reflect on what holds us back from fully following Jesus. Is it fear, pride, or something else? Jesus invites us to let it go and trust Him. The path of discipleship may be narrow, but it leads to life.
Let us pray for the courage to follow Him wholeheartedly, to change. Amen.
Fr. Sali Agustine, S.J.